Girl MIA

[roamer99999]

Wanted to check if this is normal with bros. I met 2 girls for a meal. Everything went fine and they even shared superficial details of themselves such as where they work etc.

We agreed to meetup afew days later for sex with some chitchat in between. However, both of them became unresponsive on the day itself.

Can any bros share with me their experiences, if this is normal and how to avoid such scenarios

[ofdemoacc]

Well done on securing the date.

A wise mentor once told me - always sell the date.

Girls naturally like the thrill. They like unpredictability.

So in this case, what I’d do is to sell an experiential date like dinner + go karting or smth.

Then ask her to come over to yours an hour before dinner as you have a surprise. That’ll keep her on her toes.

Do the deed then head off.

Make the deed a casual thing, a starter in your dinner course. Else they’d flake you since it’s just sex and nothing else.

They want fun, they want thrill.

Unfortunately we’re guys. Have to work hard always. But that’s the game!

[roamer99999]

Originally Posted by ofdemoacc

Well done on securing the date.

A wise mentor once told me - always sell the date.

Girls naturally like the thrill. They like unpredictability.

So in this case, what I’d do is to sell an experiential date like dinner + go karting or smth.

Then ask her to come over to yours an hour before dinner as you have a surprise. That’ll keep her on her toes.

Do the deed then head off.

Make the deed a casual thing, a starter in your dinner course. Else they’d flake you since it’s just sex and nothing else.

They want fun, they want thrill.

Unfortunately we’re guys. Have to work hard always. But that’s the game!

But we agreed on it being NSA with no commitment where any party can end it at any moment. She mentioned that she is not looking for a boyfriend and such activities

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by roamer99999

Wanted to check if this is normal with bros. I met 2 girls for a meal. Everything went fine and they even shared superficial details of themselves such as where they work etc.

We agreed to meetup afew days later for sex with some chitchat in between. However, both of them became unresponsive on the day itself.

Can any bros share with me their experiences, if this is normal and how to avoid such scenarios

Hi bro, where u fish for these fun girls from?

[ahseng00]

Originally Posted by roamer99999

But we agreed on it being NSA with no commitment where any party can end it at any moment. She mentioned that she is not looking for a boyfriend and such activities

In your case , it ended already .

[ahseng00]

What is in it for her , if she met you for sex on your pre-arranged date. ?

Maybe on the day she was supposed to meet you , there are other guys who bring her out for nice dinner + nsa sex .

Vs your nsa

Thus she ghosted you